The Coffee Cup Trick That’s Transforming Businesses
The day Starbucks decided your name wasn’t good enough, everything changed.
You’re standing in line at your local Starbucks, half-awake and craving that life-giving elixir we call coffee. You reach the counter, mumble your order, and brace yourself for the inevitable name-butchering that’s about to occur on your cup. But wait—something’s different. Instead of your mangled moniker, you’re handed a cup with a message that says, “You’ve got this!”
Suddenly, you’re not just another sleepy face in a coffee shop. You’re seen. You’re encouraged. And all because someone decided that the simple act of writing on a coffee cup could be so much more.
This isn’t just clever marketing. This is Unreasonable Hospitality in action. A small shift that makes a big impact—turning an everyday transaction into a deeply human moment.
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The Unreasonable Hospitality Revolution
So, what exactly is Unreasonable Hospitality? It’s not about bending over backwards or offering caviar with your cappuccino. It’s about recognising that people don’t just buy products—they seek experiences that make them feel valued, seen, and appreciated.
Coined by Will Guidara, Unreasonable Hospitality is the idea that every business—not just restaurants, hotels, or coffee shops—should think like the hospitality industry. It’s about elevating ordinary interactions into meaningful experiences, creating moments that delight customers, build loyalty, and generate word-of-mouth marketing.
Starbucks didn’t reinvent coffee. They didn’t launch a flashy new drink or overhaul their stores. Instead, they did something much more powerful:
They took a forgettable moment and made it unforgettable.
They understood that customers aren’t just buying coffee. They’re looking for a moment of connection, reassurance, or a little boost to their day. And when you inject extra care into your customer experience? People remember. They come back. And they tell others.
Beyond the Barista: Unreasonable Hospitality for All
You might be thinking, "That's great for Starbucks, but I'm not in the business of serving lattes." Hold onto your hat, because unreasonable hospitality is for everyone. Whether you're a consultant, an e-commerce mogul, or yes, even a dentist, you're in the business of serving people.
Think about it. Every time someone interacts with your business, it's a touchpoint. And every touchpoint is an opportunity to make someone's day a little bit brighter. It's not about how good your product or service is - though that's important too. It's about how you make people feel.
Mapping the Journey to Delight
So, how do you start creating these magical moments? It's simpler than you might think:
1. Map it out: Take a good, hard look at your customer's journey. From the first click on your website to the follow-up email after a purchase, identify every single interaction.
2. Find the gold: Which touchpoints get the most love from your customers? Which ones make them want to tear their hair out? These are your starting points.
3. Sprinkle some magic: Take those touchpoints and ask yourself, "How can I make this unexpectedly awesome?" Maybe it's a personalized note with each order, or a follow-up call that doesn't try to sell anything.
4. Involve everyone: From the CEO to the intern, everyone has a role to play in creating these moments. Get the whole team involved in brainstorming and implementing ideas.
5. Dive deep: Don't just skim the surface. Really dig into each touchpoint and consider all the ways you can improve it.
The Secret Sauce: Surprise and Delight
Now, here's where the real magic happens. The most powerful tool in your unreasonable hospitality toolkit is the element of surprise. People expect good service. They don't expect to be delighted.
Remember that overlooked touchpoint we mentioned earlier? Email. Imagine receiving a transactional email that doesn't just confirm your order, but also includes a personalised message or an a playlist to go with your product . Suddenly, that boring confirmation becomes a moment of connection.
Scaling the Unscalable
"But wait," you might be thinking, "How can I possibly do this for every customer as my business grows?" It's a valid concern, but here's the secret: it's all about process.
Start by mapping out the recurring touchpoints in your customer journey. Then, create processes that allow for personalization at scale. Yes, some interactions will always require a custom touch, but you'd be surprised how much you can systematize while still keeping that personal feel.
The ROI of Unreasonable
Now, let's talk bottom line. Putting people first isn't just good karma - it's good business. When you create memorable experiences, you're not just making a sale. You're creating loyal customers who can't wait to tell their friends about you.
Think about it. How many times have you raved about a company that went above and beyond for you? That word-of-mouth marketing is priceless.
Your Coffee Cup Moment Awaits
So, what's your coffee cup moment? What's that simple interaction in your business that you can transform into something memorable?
Remember, unreasonable hospitality isn't about grand gestures. It's about finding those small moments and making them count. It's about seeing your customers as people, not transactions. And most importantly, it's about creating a culture where everyone in your organization is empowered to create these moments of delight.
In a world where automation and AI are taking over more and more of our interactions, these human touches become even more powerful. They're what set you apart from the competition. They're what turn one-time buyers into lifelong fans.
So go ahead, be unreasonable. Your customers will thank you for it. And who knows? You might just change someone's day - or their life - with something as simple as a message on a coffee cup.
After all, in the grand scheme of things, we're all just trying to make it through our day. Why not make someone else's a little bit brighter along the way?
Now, if you'll excuse me, I have a sudden craving for coffee. And who knows? Maybe I'll write an encouraging message on my own cup. Because sometimes, the person who needs that little boost the most is yourself.
Cheers to unreasonable hospitality, and to making every interaction count. Now go out there and create some magic.
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Actionable strategies to elevate your customer experience
How to create moments your customers will rave about
Practical ways to inject energy and life into your customer journey
Simple tactics to differentiate your brand and exceed expectations
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Because when you elevate the moments that matter, your customers don’t just come back—they bring others with them.